When you find out you are pregnant there is a lot that goes through your mind, and it helps to learn from others who have been there before. I am one of those women who has been through pregnancy and childbirth and I would like to offer some tips on ways I found to enjoy my pregnancy and make it easier on both myself and the baby.

Relax
Fatigue is a very common and tiring (yawn!) symptom of pregnancy. There is a valid reason for fatigue during pregnancy, however. Your body is hard at work building a new human being. Some have compared the exertion of being pregnant to mountain climbing. It is important to get as much sleep as you can now, because later you won’t get much sleep at all. You might be too uncomfortable to sleep towards the end of your pregnancy and once your baby is born, you are going to be sleep deprived for a long time.

Stretch
Stretching, walking and prenatal yoga are two very relaxing and exercising activities that will help a lot during pregnancy. Taking time for fitness will give you time to yourself to think (you lose a lot of your personal time after the birth), and you will be conditioning your body to make labor and delivery much easier.

Don’t Stress
Some studies have concluded that stress can actually cause miscarriages, but there are many more reasons to relax. Although you may not have a miscarriage because of stress, stress also reduces how well you digest your food. What a shame if all those carefully chosen nutrients and vitamins don’t get digested into your blood stream. It is very important that you retain all the nutrients you can for your growing baby.

Get Health Care
Having someone that you can consult with is a great help. It is also important that you have someone who is an expert in the field of pregnancy to help you with all concerns you have about birth. Personally, I recommend having both a midwife and a doula. Midwives are specifically trained to help the mom and baby through birth, they take into account your safety as well as your comfort. A doula helps you through your pregnancy, delivery and after you go home with your baby. Primarily they are there to give you information, and to help you with different techniques through your birthing experience. Obstetricians are necessary if you have a high risk pregnancy or anticipate a complicated or dangerous delivery, but otherwise midwives or unassisted childbirth is probably best. With the growing number of mother and infant deaths in our country, it is very important to get the best care for you and your baby, that does not always mean the most technological care.

Meditate
Taking time to yourself to focus just on you and the baby will increase your awareness of your own body while you are giving birth. Being able to connect with your baby will help you to know when it is right for you to push, as well as give you time to focus on just your baby and nothing that may stress you.

Please share these tips with any women having a baby that you know.

by Debbie McFarron
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